Unfortunately, sometime ago... I came across a very difficult individual a few months ago. And I have to say at the very least, that she was indeed ignorant. While I won't say exactly what made me come to this conclusion, the title of this topic is very influenced by this person.
I was a friend of someone whom she knew also, but in a different way. And thanks to a untrustworthy person, she got the impression that I was something, that I'm clearly not. The ultimate point I'm trying to make is, she is the type of person to believe a lie, and perceive it as the truth.
There is always three sides to a story. The first persons' side, the second persons' side, and in this case the third persons' side, AND then.. THE TRUTH. And looking at the situation, I know something she doesn't know, but i don't waste my time reaching out to her to get her to open her eyes.
The thing about it is, I feel sorry for her because she isn't open to giving people the benefit of the doubt. So unfortunately, the three of us will have to wait until the truth comes out. And that in itself, will be an unfortunate occasion.
Sometimes, if you aren't so quick to jump to conclusions, then you begin to see that some things aren't as bad as they seem. Nor will they turn out to be how you thought they were. If you put ignorance on the back burner, and open up your ability to understand, then there will be a lot less misunderstanding.